Dreher:

Unless I'm missing something, in the 31 states in which voters had a
say on whether or not gay marriage was going to be the law of the land,
they all rejected it. Every single state. Even California,
the national bellwether state on liberalizing social trends. Even
Maine, in the most liberal region of the country

...unless you're prepared to call more than half the country bigots -- and I have no doubt that many, perhaps most, gay marriage supporters are, and let that self-serving explanation suffice -- maybe, just maybe, you ought to ask yourself if there's something else going on here. And that maybe, just maybe, serious attention should be paid, instead of paying attention long enough to insult people who disagree with you as evil people who deserved to be excoriated and harassed.

Coates replies:

I probably wouldn't use the word "bigot." I don't think, for instance,
that half this country thinks hate crimes against gays is a good thing.
But I have no problem believing that half the country--maybe more--is
deeply prejudiced against gays. This generally f